23 January 2004
Sympathy for the Monster
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my rating:


Nathan's rating:

I was a little surprised that Nathan suggested that we see Monster, since it's getting critical acclaim and a fairly limited release. He doesn't usually care for "cinema". But you don't look a gift whore in the mouth, eh?
That kind of callous, misogynist joke was un-called-for, of course, but it seemed appropriate in the context of this movie, which is about a woman whose whole life seems to have been full of that kind of crap. To the point that you can actually understand, and even have sympathy for her... despite the fact that she murdered seven people.
The movie is based on the story of Aileen "Lee" Wuornos, a serial killer, and her girlfriend, called "Selby" in the film (Tyria Moore in real life). Charlize Theron plays Lee, and disappears so completely into the role that Nathan - who didn't recognise the name - had no idea that he'd ever seen her before, in various "pretty young woman" roles. (He recognised Christina Ricci from Casper, and was surprised to see her like this.) I've seen some clips of the real Wuornos, and Theron's almost-perfect recreation of her (even down to her appearance and mannerisms) is downright spookly.
The relationship between the two is portrayed in rather unflattering terms. Once upon a time I would've just cringed at yet another movie featuring a "straight" woman who "turns lesbian" and then proceeds to shoot holes in men with hard-ons. I think we've gotten to the point where a movie can tackle that subject matter without being homophobic in the process. Dysfunctional as the relationship is, you can understand what drew these two women together, and why they needed each other. It's almost sweet.
Just as importantly, the movie makes it possible to understand what brought Wuornos to the point where she started killing men. A lifetime of being shit on (figuratively) and fucked (literally) by them, made her needy enough to fall for the only person to show her actual love (Selby), and finally being beaten and raped by one of her johns made her resentful enough to start taking revenge.
At least that's how the movie tells it. Dead men tell no tales, so it's impossible to know exactly what happened in each of the killings. The movie implies that the first was a case of very justifiable homicide which inadvertantly taught her that she could get away with it, that along the way she was somewhat selective about whom she killed (such as sparing a nervous guy who'd never hired a prostitute before), but by the time of her last killing she'd dropped her standards from "he deserves it" to "I can't let him live".
I've done a little online research into the story of Wuornos and Moore, and there are some signficant disagreements between that info and what's in the movie (especially the difference between Selby and Moore). There are a couple of genuinely documentary movies on the subject available if that's what you're looking for. But taken on the level of a plausible character study, this movie is first-rate. I may never again look at a serial killer in the same way.
# 2004-01-23 09:39 PM | TrackBackIt was indeed a great movie. Theron is astonishing, especially given her natural beauty.
Posted by: Asparagirl at January 30, 2004 10:59 PMIf you think you can "have sympathy" for Aileen Wuornos and believe that "the movie makes it possible to understand what brought Wuornos to the point where she started killing men", then you are in serious need of facts and the *actual* documentation regarding the Wuornos case. If you couldn't already tell, the movie was Hollywoodized in the extreme. In no way was Wuornos someone deserving of sympathy.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A20626-2004Feb6.html
http://www.crimelibrary.com/notorious_murders/women/wuornos/6.html?sect=11
Posted by: Darren at February 9, 2004 07:01 PMSympathy is something you have to "deserve"? How quaintly Calvinist.
I make a distinction between feeling sorry for someone, and liking them or approving of what they did. I guess if you can't make that distinction, and you're more interested in judging her than in understanding how she got that way, then I suppose sympathy may be pretty hard to come by.
Posted by: Scott at February 10, 2004 07:50 PMWhat ever happened with Selby? Did she do any jail time?
Posted by: Ed Suchman at February 21, 2004 10:07 PMAs far as I know, Tyria Moore (the person that "Selby" was based on) was never charged with anything. She never participated in Wuornos' murders, and I assume that the police and prosecutors looked the other way on any charges of complicity because of her cooperation in getting Wuornos to confess.
Posted by: Scott at February 22, 2004 08:10 AMI read the article Darren posted the link for - written by Sue Russell. Did you know that Sue DOESN'T have all the facts? Did you know Sue approached Aillen's best friend, Dawn, under a ficticious name? Just to get info on the book she was writing. Sue never spoke to Aileen, Lee couldn't stand her. So do not believe everything you read, especially when someone is out to make a buck on Lee's story.
Posted by: Lee-supporter at August 24, 2004 04:34 PM




